For the life you want...and the world we all need
You want to be more inclusive,
create safe spaces and make a meaningful impact.
You want more confidence in your allyship.
Allyship, Inclusion and Safer Spaces
These resources can help you
Explore the ways systems shape beliefs and assumptions
Recognise the impact of your own privilege
Understand the experience of marginalisation
Learn how to listen, act, and show up with integrity
Develop your inclusivity and allyship with compassion and curiosity
Allyship Means Action
FREE DOWNLOAD
“Eye opening and made me realise how possible change is” - Claire
This free pdf guide is a great starting point to for anyone who wants to show up as a stronger ally - in community, in conversation, and in action.
This is your introduction to:
Recognising your role as an ally so you can take action
Unlearning your assumptions and privilege
Listening and learning - when to speak up or shut up
Calling out or calling in -communication skills for allies
"Perhaps the most important role an ally can play is that of a bridge or buffer – a point of connection or safety zone between groups of humans that are on opposite sides of a battle."
- Jenn Wilson
Hi, I am Jenn Wilson (they/them) - founder of Irregular and the International Day of Consent.
Despite a lifetime of experience as an activist, advocate and consultant in inclusion and equity, I still sometimes make mistakes that hurt people.
As a person who is sometimes pushed to the margins myself because of my queerness and neurodivergence, I know that imperfect allies make a difference. Change doesn't come from people who don't care, or who tick boxes and say the right words but don't take action.
Allyship is about doing the work: unlearning your privilege, taking steps to learn and holding yourself accountable when you (inevitably) mess up.
I continue to be an imperfect ally and to support purpose-driven people into allyship.
I draw on my lived experience, my training in restorative justice and my consent-led practices to create judgement-free spaces where people feel safe to explore, ask questions, mess up and learn to do better next time.
Ally Advisory: Insight and guidance
121 support* for your specific challenges
Your one-to-one space with Jenn Wilson to explore your questions, challenges and intentions for inclusion and allyship.
Wondering if your wording is welcoming to all
Questions about who is or isn't, and should or should not be welcomed
Challenged by conflicting views and opinions - who and what is 'right'?
Anxious about tick-boxes and tokenism
Concerned that your intentions could be misunderstood
Help with communication, defensiveness, fear of mistakes or calling out/in
I, like many people I think, need time and nuanced discussion to grapple with concepts and ideas that are new or different to how I’ve previously seen the world. I needed a non judgmental space to clarify my thinking. Jenn was the person for the job! They actively listened, were empathic, gently challenged, provided info and context where needed and helped me move my thinking on. HIGHLY recommended.” Sylvie
*Limited availablily: options include one-hour consult, Voxer support and longer consultancies and retainers
Activate Your Allyship:
Group programme coming soon
A carefully held, learning space for people ready to go deeper into the work of allyship and inclusion
Tools for making a meaningful impact
Judgement-free space to learn and grow
Personal accountability and collective action
This new, group programme provides support and inspiration for you to explore without judgement and experience compassionate challenge.
Guest specialists will share the powerful truth of their lived experiences.
You'll reflect, unlearn unconsious bias, and grow alongside purpose-driven people.
You'll collaborate to make change and influence the building of a kinder, fairer, safer world.
Relentless Kindness
Playful Curiosity
Radical Consent
Be More Irregular
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